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  • ראוה מדברת עם אחד בשוק

The next Mishnah states regarding Beis Din: ראוה מדברת עם אחד בשוק ואמרו לה מה טיבו של איש זה – They saw an unmarried woman speaking with someone, and they asked her, “What is the nature of this man?” And she replied, "איש פלוני וכהן הוא" – He is Ploni, and he is a Kohen. Rabban Gamliel and Rebbe Eliezer say: נאמנת – she is believed, but Rebbe Yehoshua says: לא מפיה אנו חיין – We do not live by her mouth, אלא הרי זו בחזקת בעולה לנתין ולממזר עד שתביא ראיה לדבריה – Rather, she has a chazakah of having relations with a nasin or mamzer until she brings proof to her claim. The Gemara brings a machlokes regarding what is meant by “speaking”. Zeiri says: נסתרה – It means she was in seclusion with him, and Rav Assi says: נבעלה – It means she had relations with him. The Gemara says that while it is understandable according to Zeiri that it means she was secluded, for that is what is meant by “speaking,” but according to Rav Assi, how does speaking connote having relations? The Gemara answers that the Mishnah is using לישנא מעליא – a euphemism, as it is written in Mishlei regarding the ways of an adulterous woman, "אכלה ומחתה פיה ואמרה לא פעלתי און" – She eats and wipes her mouth and says, “I have done no wrong.” Rashi explains that “eats” is a euphemism for having relations.

  • Ruins in a city vs. ruins in a field

The Gemara brings several challenges to Rav Assi’s position. It was stated in a Baraisa: ראוה שנכנסה עם אחד לסתר או לחורבה – They saw her enter with a man into a secluded place or a ruin, and they asked her what is nature of this man, and she replied, כהן הוא ובן אחי אבא הוא – He is a Kohen, the son of my father’s brother. Rabban Gamliel and Rebbe Eliezer say that she is believed and permitted to marry a Kohen, and Rebbe Yehoshua says that she is not believed until she brings proof. The Gemara says that it is understandable according to Zeiri, who holds “speaking” means secluded, for that is why the Baraisa brought the two cases of a secluded place and a ruin, one for seclusion and the other case where she had relations. But according to Rav Assi, who holds “speaking” is having relations, what is the need for two cases? The Gemara answers that the Baraisa is speaking of two types of ruins, חורבא דמתא וחורבא דדברא – the ruins in a city and ruins in a field. If the Baraisa only brought the case of ruins in the city, we would say that that is a case where Rabban Gamliel believes her, since rov men in a Jewish city are fit for her. And if it only taught the case of a ruin in the field, we would say that perhaps it is only there where Rebbe Yehoshua disagrees, but in a Jewish city he would agree. The Gemara eventually refutes Rav Assi’s position.

  • Machlokes whether the daughter of the woman is passul as well

Rebbe Yochanan said: לדברי המכשיר בה מכשיר בבתה לדברי הפוסל בה פוסל בבתה – To the ones who rule her fit, referring to Rabban Gamliel and Rebbe Eliezer, they rule her daughter is fit as well, and according to the one, Rebbe Yehoshua, who rules her passul, he rules her daughter is passul as well. But Rebbe Elazar says: לדברי המכשיר בה פוסל בבתה – To the one who rules her fit, he rules her daughter is passul. Rabbah said that Rebbe Elazar’s reason is:  בשלמא איהי אית לה חזקה דכשרות בתה לית ליה חזקה דכשרות – It is well that the mother is fit, for she has a chazakah of kashrus, but her daughter does not have a chazakah of kashrus. Rashi explains that before the woman was secluded or pregnant, she had a chazakah that she was fit to a Kohen. Now, because of a safek we do not remove the chazakah from her.

Siman – Bar Mitzvah Boy. The overly zealous Bar Mitzvah boy who saw a woman “speaking” with a man and brought Beis Din to see for themselves, had his friends stake out the ruins in the city and ruins in the field, and hoped to hear that Beis Din would rule that her daughter is passul despite her mother’s chazakah.

Rabbi Avraham Goldhar

Rabbi Avraham Goldhar has been designing and teaching Jewish literacy courses for over thirty years. His knowledge frameworks for Biblical mastery, Jewish History, Talmudic Law & Jewish Holidays enable students of all backgrounds to better integrate Jewish concepts and learn systematically. After serving as the Educational Director of Aish HaTorah New York, Avraham launched GoldharSchool.com, Home of Big Picture Jewish Education, featuring Jewish literacy content for schools and individuals. He is the developer of the Goldhar Method, a revolutionary learning system that integrates memory into the learning process and has trained over 80,000 students, teachers and professionals. He lectures internationally on the topic of academic mastery and the solutions required to raise the bar in education. Avraham learned in Aish HaTorah, Mir, and Chaim Berlin and received his ordination under the tutelage of Rabbi Yitzchok Berkovits in Jerusalem.